Things are always exactly what they are. But there is simply no one way that things are. How things appear to you and how you experience them is shaped by you. The canvas of your existence is an infinite reflexivity. If you lean to the left, it leans to the left. If you lean to the right, it leans to the right. If you lean forwards, it leans forwards with you. If you lean backwards, it leans backwards with you. It is constantly bending this way and that just to accommodate you. Take a good look. What is small bends into the big. What is big bends into the small. What is unimportant bends into the important. What is important bends into the unimportant. What is not there bends into the there. What is there bends into the not there. Everything is constantly bending this way and that. Think on it. Which way are you going to bend it next?